The song by Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young, “Love The One You’re With”, is one of my favorites. It makes so much sense. If you don’t have a lover, romantic partner, mate, you always have you. Actually you are the starting point. Loving ourselves draws healthy love to us. Listen to the song if you like. Turn up the volume. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_5IVuN1N6-Y
Here are some key Feng Shui tips for attracting a love partner or enhancing the relationship you have.
1)Set the stage. Make your bedroom as nurturing and romantic looking and feeling as possible.
2) Act as If. Act as if you already have all the love you want. How do you do this? Be loving, do loving things. If Valentine’s Day and you don’t have a mate, buy yourself your favorite flowers and write on the card, ” to someone special who I truly love”. Treat yourself the way you would want to be treated. Pamper yourself. Now, some of you might read this and think that is pitiful. The other alternative is to mope, not go out, and feel bad. Do whatever makes you feel beautiful, sexy, handsome, etc. Have fun, laugh by going to a romantic comedy movie. If you feel that all the couples will be out and sitting next to you while you are alone, go during the day. Treat yourself! Its about being happy. This is what attracts abundance and love.
3)Wear pink. Pink is the color for love. Wearing a pink beaded bracelet will remind you of love. Pink lipstick will make you feel feminine. Use pink sheets on your bed to enhance love in your relationship. Hang a pink crystal in your bedroom to attract love. It is the earth element and represents relationships in feng shui.
4)Add Red for Passion. Red is a high energy fire color. It ignites passion and romance. Add some red to your bedroom. Wear a red shirt to attract a passionate partner. Light red candles in the bedroom. Wear red underwear to feel sexy and energetic. Place two red roses on your dresser in your bedroom to signify a passionate partnership.
5)Create a love altar or area in your bedroom or entry into bedroom to attract love. You can create a loving space with key feng shui elements like candles, plants, pairs of mandarin ducks and love birds.
May you have much more love and passion in your life starting today.
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Belinda Mendoza
Design For Energy
Contact us for a consultation to feng shui your bedroom for romance!
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